ZILLA (as in Bride-zilla)
It is totally normal for a bride to feel stressed and anxious in the run up to her big day which could result in her having outbursts of emotion and mini-meltdowns. This is ok and presents the perfect opportunity for your bridesmaids to step up to help calm you down and take some of the planning tasks off your hands. It is not ok however to expect members of your bridal party to lose weight to fit into a slinky bridesmaid dress you have seen, dye their hair so it doesn’t clash with your flowers or bankrupt themselves in order to attend all the luxurious activities you want. It is important that you manage your emotions so you don’t alienate people. The last thing you want is for your ‘perfect’ day to be guest-less because you lost perspective of what’s important along the way.